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I am a heterosexual male and have had the same best friend for 25yrs. We can tell each other we love each other and hug.
We call each other fags on a daily basis and when I come through the door, (I am staying with him for the time being) I am greeted with a warm middle finger.
We have a healthy male relationship. I would never conceive it weird to sleep in the same bed if we had to as we have. And do we cuddle? No not because we think its gay but its just not necessary! We have no need to show this lvl of intimacy.
Guys in general can say how the feel about each other with the actions the show.
Men don't backstab their close friends they don't diss them when they aren't around and they tend to hold onto their friendships for yrs as it means something to them.
The intimacy lies in the closeness they share as a whole not a physical touch or shared moment of cuddling! (Which to me sounds more silly than gay!)
My closest friends have been so for years and I hope will be that way for years more. But I don't feel the need to show or share that by curling up to them on the couch to watch the Rundown!
Or curl up and talk about the Hockey playoffs when it’s cold outside.
(even if he is a chubby nice smelling male lmao!)
Btw, I am a well-taken care of male work out and play allot of sports. I remove allot of my body hair as I think its gross and I smell very good if I say so my self as I do use nice soaps and body sprays for the ladies. And I still don't think another male would want to cuddle with me so saying its because " men are hairy and smelly! ~" Doesn’t make sense either.
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affected us as kids,we'd all be running around in
darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening
to repetitive electronic music."
-Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989
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