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I agree with a previous poster in that it isn't the weight gain that is unsexy, but it's the complaining. To me, sexiness is more of an attitude that a "look". Self confidence is a major turn on, so when the pounds start going on, she loses her confidence, always complains about being fat, etc., and THAT is terribly un-sexy. I've met women who are "big" but sexy as hell, as well as women who are "hot" but really un-sexy, both due to the attitude they have about themselves. Black women are generally pretty large when they get older, but they know they are sexy!
It's true that she has to want to do it for herself. My wife goes through this too, and she knows HOW to lose weight (she's done it before), it's just a matter of wanting to do it for herself.
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