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Originally posted by doncalypso
I just don't get how some women can come to a man whining about their problems but then aren't willing to lift a finger to do anything about it and end up snapping back when he offers a potential solution.
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Then you don't understand women.
Men are SOLUTION-oriented. A male mind says, "Oh! You're complaining about being out of shape? So, what you do is you go to the gym and deal with that."
Women don't (necessarily) work like that. To women, complaining can be used for lots of different things--getting attention, justifying and validating herself, etc.
All that's going on here is, you're not playing her game.