It depends on how ninja-like you are at aquiring sex.
I develop a relationship with a girl, take her out somewhere, get to know her, step it up a few notches and then (after a while) take her to my house to "meet my cat." Inside we meet my cat, Fred. Hi Fred, now it's movie time where cuddlez are to be had.
I will stroke the tip of her hair, if she likes this I give her a kiss. If she likes this then I stop. After a few minutes I start to smell her neck for a while, chicks dig it. Then comes kissing, biting and then I stop again. Once she's clearly turned on I ask her to say "please." If she says no then I roll over and lie down, she'll either get pissed and kick me in the nuts or (usually) stew in her own juices and give in. It's a great way to initiate sex, the only way I get cock blocked is if I mess up and say something retarded.
So in that context, I'd say the term is relative to the situation.
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"I went shopping last night at like 1am. The place was empty and this old woman just making polite conversation said to me, 'where is everyone??' I replied, 'In bed, same place you and I should be!' Took me ten minutes to figure out why she gave me a dirty look." --Some guy
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