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I wouldn't recommend actually having a set list of questions.
I'm currently in that "getting to know you stage" with someone right now, and since we live 14.5 hours apart, we've been able to do a lot of that kinda talking.
I think the key is to have open, honest conversations. Not so much an interrogation, or forced honesty, but just talking a lot. Don't be afraid to open up (but also, some things are best left until you know the person a little better).
It's also helpful, if you can deal with knowing about it, to discuss your respective pasts as far as sex/love/relationships go. Those elements are a huge part of what shapes us as a person. However, some people are uncomfortable talking about that at first, or hearing about their partners past, so it's important to be respectful of that.
As you become more serious with this girl, you'll start to learn new things about her...it's the natural progression of things. Just be open, because chances are, you'll find out somethings you weren't expecting (think Chasing Amy).
But, most of what you've discussed are important things that you should discuss with her. Just make sure the time is right, and make it more of a natural, give/take conversation, because most women (and men) don't feel comfortable sharing everything about themselves in an intense Q&A segment, especially if they feel that you're not being as open.
Good luck, and have fun.
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