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Originally posted by StephenSa
Interesting question. I often tell my SO about things I've read or posted on TFP and finally she got curious and asked for the address. I gave it to her and (much like the feeling you get when you realize you left your keys in the car just as the door slams shut) realized she was a bright little internet girl and would pick up on the username/search function post haste. I have at times written things here that might give her pause so yes fear did ripple through me for a moment but I decided what the hell, the damage is done and how mad could she possibly get? Well I was right. She IMMEDIATELY found the search function and pulled up all my posts. She just read a few and then said to me that she wouldn't go to the site anymore because it felt like she was reading my diary or something and didn't want to infringe on my privacy. I told her I didn't mind and go ahead (in for a penny in for a pound!) but she declined. I don't know what posts she read but they must have been some of the more personal ones. I admit I do feel I can be more open knowing she is not reading my posts but if she decided to thats ok too. Damn I love that woman!
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This is the way it ought to be, methinks... My SO knows I post, I know he posts, but do we discuss it? Nope. Would I rather him look at free porn instead of pay for it? Yep, if he's going to look at porn that is...
