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Terminal Frost · 05-03-2004, 03:56 PM

I was just thinking about what in incredibly great place this is today. It is rare that you can find such a wealth of information on the internet and find answers to almost any question. I love to browse and occasionally post in the 'Tilted Sexuality' section as well as many of the others. Being as this is such a great place and has so much information about human relations and sex and so on I would naturally like to be able to share this with my girlfriend. However, I'm not sure I would want to turn her on to this site. I would love for her to be able to read and contribute here but that would pretty much mean that I would be restricted from asking questions about our sex-life or relationship on this board. Now I haven't come across ANYTHING that we couldn't talk about with each other - and I really do love her more than I could possibly imagine - but the thought of giving up my ability to post freely and anonymously is what stops me from giving her the address.

The more I think about it the more I come to realize that I really can talk to her about anything at all so it wouldn’t really matter if I gave up my ability to talk about our relationship to others without her knowing. We’ve been together for a little more than 3 months now so it is still sort of new for both of us. I’m sure I’ll be able to let her in on this so we can explore the TFP together – but I just don’t think I’m quite ready yet.

So what is your situation? Does your SO know about this site? Do they know that you post here? Do both of you share the experience and post together?

Just curious –

Thanks!

05-03-2004, 03:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
Terminal Frost Tilted Location: Manhattan Island	Does your SO know about and/or surf the TFP? I was just thinking about what in incredibly great place this is today. It is rare that you can find such a wealth of information on the internet and find answers to almost any question. I love to browse and occasionally post in the 'Tilted Sexuality' section as well as many of the others. Being as this is such a great place and has so much information about human relations and sex and so on I would naturally like to be able to share this with my girlfriend. However, I'm not sure I would want to turn her on to this site. I would love for her to be able to read and contribute here but that would pretty much mean that I would be restricted from asking questions about our sex-life or relationship on this board. Now I haven't come across ANYTHING that we couldn't talk about with each other - and I really do love her more than I could possibly imagine - but the thought of giving up my ability to post freely and anonymously is what stops me from giving her the address. The more I think about it the more I come to realize that I really can talk to her about anything at all so it wouldn’t really matter if I gave up my ability to talk about our relationship to others without her knowing. We’ve been together for a little more than 3 months now so it is still sort of new for both of us. I’m sure I’ll be able to let her in on this so we can explore the TFP together – but I just don’t think I’m quite ready yet. So what is your situation? Does your SO know about this site? Do they know that you post here? Do both of you share the experience and post together? Just curious – Thanks!