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I just wish that I had a pair of breasts. Then I could say "I DON'T NEED YOURS I HAVE MY OWN" and then me and the women would be on an equal playing field.
I understand the whole body language thing, but because of the social norm that says men approach women (think sadie hawkins dance as being the exception) women hold all the cards. They can get away with really subtle body language while we put our pride on the line.
This being said, I believe that it really comes down to confidence. I don't have this confidence but am working on it. It is universal even beyond man/woman interaction. If you look like you should be doing it people will believe you should be doing it (applies to things like getting into places your not supposed to be, stealing, etc.).
Take this and morph it into you being confident enough where women will believe that you are as worth it as the vibe you are putting off. Be confident in yourself and women will be confident in you as well.
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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