It's as messy as you want it to be. Most we ever do is lay a towel down on the bed underneath us if we haven't played in a while cause hubby might - um - store up

. Otherwise I always go wash afterwards (cause I'm prone to yeasties) and hubby always wipes off. It's just annoying when you wake up (for hubby) to have dried cum stuck to your you-know-whats.
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