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It's because we live in a society where the girls are the prize, due to the fact that they hold a lot of sexual power in relationships. This is mostly because of males willing to "fight" one another (compete) for a woman. So most girls get to pick and choose the "right" man, and don't have to seek him out. If you want to get a girl, you're going to have to go up to girls, and talk to them, throw a few interesting stories their way. Show them that you are the confident, exciting, interesting guy they want to see. If you talk to 3 new girls a day, you will soon realize your shyness will quickly dissapear. REJECTION IS NOT A BAD THING. It is a chance to learn what you did wrong. Also, every girl you do not ask IS a rejection of a sorts, you have absolutley nothing to lose by asking them out.
If you happen along an agressive girl that asks you out, chances are you're going to be miserable. She'll have all the power in the relationship, and you'll just be her toy to drag around. Or you could get really crazy lucky and meet an assertive, confident woman that sees your inner strength and will sweep you off your feet, and take you to a fancy restaurant, then screw you on the first night, leading into a long and loving relationship. Or not.
Just stop worrying about what other people think about you, they are probably too busy thinking about what you think about them. I was a really shy guy some time ago, and I came to this realization. There is absolutley nothing to lose, and so much to gain.
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