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Originally posted by fallenangel
Well, my s.o. is die hard computer junkie, so after much much wasted effort, i think i finally came to terms that he couldn't go any length of time w/o computer access, REGARDLESS of what else he was doing with his time.
It's disheartening Jazz, i know hun, but it's something you work around, if you really care/love someone.
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ditto here, my guy loves his computer and for a long time I felt pushed aside, but I learned to work with it and found other stuff to do like read a book while he was on the computer and I also talked to him about how I felt. That helped a little, but things are working out now for the most part. And since I love the computer too, I can't say too much. but he spends at least twice as much time on it than I do. Meh, you'll find something that works. Our relationship used to be long distance until recently and there were times I would be talking to him on the phone and I could tell he wasn't listening since he was on the computer or playing vg!