Ibelieve the only difference between being a single mother and a single father is how society looks at you. You are a hero. A single mother is a slut.
Given that, what both need are a good support system. I suggest playgroups, sports for your kids where you can meet other parents, church, etc. Also, take time for yourself. Your kids are very important -- but if you don't take care of yourself, who, ultimately will take care of them? You have to refuel in order to keep running for them.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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