it's not a matter of ease, it's amatter of respect for other people's boundaries.
pursuing people in a relationship is bad karma, even if you succeed that doesn't mean they were unhappy to begin with. If you want someone who is actually unhappy in their relationship, they should figure it out for themself and make that choice on their own.
and "stealing" someone's gf/bf makes it sound like your friends don't have a lot of respect for the opposite sex. Sounds more like they enjoy the underhandedness of it than the actual person they are pursuing.
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