I think it's a case by case situation. First, you have to realize whether you're interested in the girl because you want to do a little baby-making practice, or because you want to seriously date her. If it's just for the sex, then get her if you can. If she leaves her first relationship, then chances are that you just helped her spring free from a relationship that would have ended anyways. You can't be seduced unless you want to be. If, on the other hand, you think you want to date this girl and you might fall in love with her, don't do it. As others have mentioned, if you lure her away from a relationship, good or bad (in my experience) it always causes problems somewhere down the road. There's a taint. Relationships that are sinking to the point that you can swoop her away are always surrounded by stress and ickyness. It can cause trust issues, she may blame you later for the break up when her head is finally clear, etc. You usually become the rebound guy.
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