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frozenstellar · 05-03-2003, 07:15 PM

i'm stuck in this situation.

this chick, call her Anna, has been after me since november 2002(graduation), and will not back off. i thought i'd be right, she got a place into university over 2 hours away from here. unfortunately, she deferred. Now I was with a friend of hers from Dec-April, and since she's got wind that we broke up, i havent been able to go anywhere without her showing up, wanting to get together.

I was with Anna two nights out at the pub (damn beer) two weeks ago. problem is, i dont want anything to do with her in a relationship, yet she wants there to be a relationship. i got a msg from her last night 'i almost picked up tonight, but it didnt feel right, i only want to pick you up.' i sent one back that spoke my mind, cuz she'd woke me up at 2:30 when she sent it, and i had 3hrs sleep in the past 36hrs cuz my brother is in hospital with a blood disorder, and couldnt get back to sleep because both the Anna issue, and my brother's health were troubling me.

she's a nice girl, but someone that i dont want to be in a relationship with, just as a friend. how do i say 'i think your really nice, but i dont want to be with you' nicely, to try and stay as just friends?

im trying to study for a calculus assessment starting tomorrow, and cannot get my mind on track to do so because of this.

05-03-2003, 07:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
frozenstellar Without Wings Location: Australia	how to say 'i think your really nice, but i dont want to be with you' nicely? i'm stuck in this situation. this chick, call her Anna, has been after me since november 2002(graduation), and will not back off. i thought i'd be right, she got a place into university over 2 hours away from here. unfortunately, she deferred. Now I was with a friend of hers from Dec-April, and since she's got wind that we broke up, i havent been able to go anywhere without her showing up, wanting to get together. I was with Anna two nights out at the pub (damn beer) two weeks ago. problem is, i dont want anything to do with her in a relationship, yet she wants there to be a relationship. i got a msg from her last night 'i almost picked up tonight, but it didnt feel right, i only want to pick you up.' i sent one back that spoke my mind, cuz she'd woke me up at 2:30 when she sent it, and i had 3hrs sleep in the past 36hrs cuz my brother is in hospital with a blood disorder, and couldnt get back to sleep because both the Anna issue, and my brother's health were troubling me. she's a nice girl, but someone that i dont want to be in a relationship with, just as a friend. how do i say 'i think your really nice, but i dont want to be with you' nicely, to try and stay as just friends? im trying to study for a calculus assessment starting tomorrow, and cannot get my mind on track to do so because of this.