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Originally posted by hossified
geez.....she is unhappy with it too....I'm just trying to figure out a way to convey to her that I am concerned!!! And I would hope that after 4 years...if I have developed traits that she doesn't find appealing....that she would tell me.
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Well, if what you're concerned about is
her and how she feels about
herself then don't even mention the weight. Tell her you notice that she's not happy, and that you want her to be happy with herself. Tell her that you'd like to see her happy, and that because you love her, when she's unhappy, you're unhappy. Don't make it abuot the weight.