Actually you can talk about it, but with women they hear things in a much different way than what you intend. I highly recommend the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". The advice it has is so simple, but it was a help to me and my wife in learning to communicate better. It is actually quite easy to talk about what you want to talk about, but if you approach it in the manner of most guys (bull in a china shop), it won't work. Read the book and see if it gives you any ideas.
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