Guthmund- you completely cracked me up with your whole chubby guys cuddling thing.
Why do all you guys think other guys stink? My husband smells good! Why would girls cuddle with guys if they all stink? Now the softness issue is one I can understand, but not the stink issue.
And for the record- I have cuddled intimately with a girl and a guy and like it both ways. I do recall actually saying to the girl "you are so soft and smooth".