well upon further investigation....I have found out that she is mildly depressed.....and she says that in order for her to get in the mood, she needs me to cuddle more with her and hold hands etc.... I guess for myself (and am sure for many other guys)...we just don't understand that effect for women.....becasue as I guy...all I need to get in the mood is a girl I find attractive, in the same room as me. I just hope that she is still attracted to me...and doesn't require all that 'gushy' stuff to get her in the mood. Cripes I read threads from nearly all the female members on this board...and they are all nymphs whose bf's don't have the sex drive they do!!!! Man I wish I was in that situation!
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