I am curious as to how much weight she has gained as compared to what her weight used to be. Maybe she feels ok with her body, but received bad vibes from you about it which makes her not feel sexy in front of you. I can understand if she has gained say 20 pounds or more that you would want her to lose some weight. It is a possibility that when she diets for 2 weeks she doesn't see any improvement in her body and feels like it was all for nothing? It is healthy to lose only about a pound a week. Have you told her that you are proud of her for trying to improve her health when she went on these diets? Maybe that would be her stick to them longer.
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