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Telling her that you are unhappy directly is the wrong way of doing it. Women don't think like this. You can still do it, but it has to be really subtle. Also, what is subtle to you will still be like launching rockets to her, but she will appreciate your "attempt" at being subtle.
Say she puts something on that you like her in, tell her she looks really nice in it. Hug her and tell her how great she is looking, etc. If she asks you how she looks in something and you don't like it, be honest but not brutally honest if you know what I mean. My wife is skinny, but there are certain clothes that don't look good on her. She asks if something looks good, and I'll say, it isn't totally flattering. This opens the discussion up about her figure, and if I had any complaints, we could talk about them that way. She is the one that brought up the topic. As Averett said, you are in the relationship for what she brings to the table in how she treats you, personality, etc. Looks are only part of the package, and her looks are going to change a bunch over the years. Make her happy mentally, and she will work her ass off to make you happy in the ways that you like.
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