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For women, sexual feeling comes out of emotion. Yes, she may feel self-conscious about her body, but the main problem is that she feels you are repulsed by her. Complimenting her appearance can work wonders, but it has to be sincere. If you want her to lose weight, go on the diet with her. Just because you may not need to lose weight yourself doesn't mean that you can't eat the food. Also, for a "diet" to be really effective, it has to be something that you can maintain once you get off the diet. You can eat a few more calories for maintaining weight rather than being in weight-loss mode. There are many good diets out there, but the best is to just eat slightly less and excercise slightly more.
Another suggestion is to buy some home equipment. It doesn't have to be expensive. My wife and I do abs together all the time, and we have a small set of weights for the times we can't get to the gym. I also have a recumbant bike that I use to do cardio on days I'm too lazy to drive to the gym. Nothing works to help someone lose weight than be having someone else working with them.
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