I would also like to recommend that, for your first time, cut both of yourselves some slack. She's not going to be totally into it, and you're going to blow early. It happens. So when it does, don't be shocked or embarrassed, just remind yourself that you knew this was coming. Set aside lots of time. If she's willing, go ahead and do it again in a few minutes. Hell, do it four times. My personal record is five, but I bet that's nothing compared to some here.
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