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"No sex" makes me cranky. If you're getting once or twice a week, you're still getting it.
I'm 48 and have been married twice. I can tell you, no sex for a month at a time is definitely an indication something is wrong in the relationship. It's definitely time to talk. Perhaps see a counsellor. My first divorce was preceded by long periods of no sex.
Any time is a good time to talk. If you ask why she doesn't want to do it everyday, she might tell you she's tired. If so, offer to clean the kitchen while she gets ready for bed! Buy her sexy clothes to dress up in and some candles. Or, do it in the morning. That's my favourite time!
If it's the kids, well not much to do about that. Young kids are the worst for that. Our older kids know the bedroom is a special place and nobody goes there without permission. You just have to learn to be quiet. We know they know we're fucking. We just don't like to make it too obvious. After a family breakup or two, kids learn sex means love, and love means no breakups in the foreseeable future. Kids aren't dumb, they know that's a good thing! When daddy is happy, he makes the best breakfasts in the morning!
I think it gets better when you get older. I don't know why. Maybe she is better at it, or maybe you are. Or maybe just hornier.
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