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There is only one way to fix this problem..... communication! When you say jacking off doesn't help, I wonder if it really is that not getting the sex is a problem or if it is a self esteem problem. I went through the same problem with my first wife and know exactly what you are going through. I would start to doubt how I made her feel. I would wonder why she was not attracted to me anymore, why she did not find me sexy. It can be a hard thing for a man to understand that women usually are not wired the same way. I would see her getting dressed and I would get horny. It would not have the same affect on her, so It would make me feel like I was not attractive. But I just had to realize that just because she wasn't a horny sexual devient like me, didn't mean that she didn't still love me and care for me. The good part is if the really do love you then there can be compromises that can meet both peoples needs. Maybe she can assist with the jacking off, or do something for you that you really like. Something you will just have to talk about and compromise on to make sure each others needs are met.
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