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Originally posted by doncalypso
I dunno what to say....
My girlfriend and I are fast approaching the two-and-a-half-years mark. However, once I graduate (May 2005) she and I will have to go our separate ways because I don't belive in long-distance relationships, and I have ten more years of schooling to go through whereas she's ready to get married and start having babies as soon as she's done with school.
In all likelihood, I'll be single for the next nine years once I'm done with college because I won't have time to devote to a relationship while I'm getting my masters degree and when I'm in med school. I probably won't get any booty or date from 2005 to 2014.
I guess there are times in a man's life when relationships and sex just have to be put aside while you take care of your business (i.e. getting your education).
If you're satisfied with your life as it is now, then don't waste your energy chasing after women because they have this funky way of always running away when you're interested and then turning around and showing attention when you're either not interested or already taken.
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Is your girl interested in going to school?
Going to Med School, huh? What will be your specialty, sounds like you are either going to be a doctor or researcher, either way good luck!! Nine Years!!! GOOD GOD!!
Guess it does come down to priorities. One needs to find a group of folks that have similar interests, goals, and ambitions. I have realized the importance of this since being in school. If your girl is smart, sexy, and driven, then i hope it works out. If not, then I hope you find one that has those qualities or the qualities that you desire.
Yeah, for the most part, i like my life right now! Whilst most folks my age have already started down the road of having families and responsibilities, I have had the time to find what works and what doesnt work for me. Yeah, funny thing bout tha womens. The more one shows a bit of interest, the more they get distant, but if you don't know they exist, don't care, or don't think you have a chance, those are the ones that are head over heals nuts over you.