I cannot maintain eye contact with someone for very long. I dont know but it makes me very uncomfortable...almost like I am playing chicken with the other person...whoever looks away first loses. I am a relatively confident person, but to me maintaining eye contact is rude....I see it as an intimidation move. I also find myself *thinking* about the eye contact rather than listen to what they are saying.
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Sorrow is better than laughter,
because a sad face is good for the heart. -Ecclesiastes 7:3
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