On my list of things I want to do before I die, having a child (or adopting one), getting married, and falling madly in love are on that list...they're not listed together or in any particular order. I don't feel that I have to be married to have a child. I'll have a child when I'm ready to be a mother. I don't feel like I'm having a child out of societal expectations; I truly feel that I've made the decision to have a child because I love kids, I want to teach someone, and I feel like I will be a good mother. Being a single parent isn't easy, I know. But really, is life ever easy?
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"With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy."
-Desiderata
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