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From the women that I have been with it, it is like a second "G" spot. Their orgasms are harder and longer, and they are usually more "wore out" afterwards.
For me, I like the idea of her being aroused enough to "WANT" me to play with her and get "more" intimate with her. That means I am doing enough to please her enough for her to want me to go further.
Done right it should NEVER hurt. I have NEVER had a women hurt during anal sex or play. But I have also read alot, learned alot, and most of all asked a lot while playing with her ass to know whether it is hurting or whether she is enjoying it and wants me to go further, deeper, harder, faster, ect. Talking during ass play is a MUST. You have got to know where she is at to know what is going on. I have had a women tell me she wanted it harder and deeper, AFTER lots of finger play and lube.
LUBE and SLOW is the key.
The same as the first time the same girl went down on me and stuck a finger in me while going down on me, I was a little tripped out, but she went slow and asked, and I had one of the biggest orgasms of my life.
Together we had a blast. But we both went SLOW, talked and used lots of lube. After that she wanted it a lot. While she played with herself, during sex, ect.
The key is to talk to your partner, go slow, and use lots of lube. Also doing it AFTER she is already turned on is a key.
DrChezman
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