debaser,
i agree with most of what you said, though i'm not sure all the things listed were facts and not your own analysis.
i especially take exception to the first point.
ABC News/Oxford Research just conducted a scientific poll of Iraqis. The results are very interesting. I think everyone who is interested in these events should take a look at it.
http://abcnews.go.com/sections/world...ll_040314.html
Overall, 56% of Iraqis feel they are better off now than before the war. 19% feel they are worse, the balance feel they are about the same.
I realize they didn't ask directly ask if they are happy about the invasion, but I feel there is enough supporting evidence provided by this poll to make a convincing argument contrary to your assumption.