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I have to say, to the people recomending that the best way to deal with a mad at the world kid is to have someone much stronger than him beat him... like has already been said "fire, here is some fuel I am going to pour on you"
What will it teach him? that if you are strong you can attack someone and not be punished, if you are weak you will be beaten... so he will beat people weaker than him because he can't hit the person who beats him back, until he gets strong enough and can start hitting back, or he just learns that violence is the way to get his way.
He certainly needs to understand that men dont hit girls, but I think he has to understand and feel that what he did was wrong, thats the way in which he'll stop, not just have some other dude beat the hell out of him for it... it will just make him bury more hate and rage and violence inside of himself - and all the blows he cannot return to the person who beat him, he'll store them inside and they will fester there.
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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