IN MY DEFENSE
This wasn't my list. I'm happily married (and have been for 7 years). Just heard this on the radio and wanted to see people's reactions. Apparently, this isn't a neutral topic
I think the smoking/drinking/dancing stuff is less the specific actions and more of a general lifestyle. Some could consider smoking and drinking to be self destructive behavior that could also be reflected in other parts of one's behavior (ie 1-night stands), while the dancing on the bar is just a cry for attention.
But as I said, I didn't make up (or use) this list, I just heard about.