|
My twins (former step children) were 12 and my son was 8 when my first daughter was born. The twins are now 22 and one of them is extremely close to the girls. He spoils them rotten -- phones and visits often -- and is totally in love with them.
Now that Lebell and I are marrying he says he hopes we have another one and assures the girls that it is "really cool and bonds the family."
The other two do okay with the girls. They love them -- just aren't as close. I think it depends on the individual.
Good luck and have fun! Congratulations too!
__________________
If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
|