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I'd be VERY upset about the kiss and like you or any other guy it would eat away at me for some time. This being said, it sounds like you have an investment in each other and if you are considering marriage you must really enjoy each others company. Were I in your situation I would try to work it out. Explain to her (and it seems that you have) that you love her and want to further the relationship but you will have some trust issues for a while and she will have to deal with them. This is price she must pay for her infidelity. She can't expect you to just immediately let it go but you can't hold it over her head indefinately. If after an appropriate amount of time you can't deal then it might be time to fly. If she does it again, dump her in the most embarrasingly painful way you can. She'll deserve it. Hopefully and probably this was just a one time mistake that she regrets and will never happen again. Good luck.
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