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I believe if he is willing to cheat on her, he is just as willing to cheat on you.
That said, after several affairs, my dad met a woman he was willing to leave my mother for after 36 years of marriage. The key: she said, "sorry hon, I don't date married men." And she didn't date him until the divorce was final. To top it off, she refused to see him for several months after the divorce because she was "no home wrecker." They've been together for 8 years now -- so it can work.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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