Don't go looking for a life mate before you're out of school. Things get way different once you get out into the working world. Get your degree, get your career started, then go hunting. That way, you won't start getting serious with someone, then get a job offer on the other side of the country.
The other thing is that women can be very very good at judging your intentions. If you have the vibe of looking for a life partner, which is pretty much the "looking for wife" vibe, they probably smell it from a mile off and shy away. Don't get the itch to hitch just yet, or else you'll be kicking yourself on down the road because you weren't busy getting your groove on when you were young and single.
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"The idea that money doesn't buy you happiness is a lie put about by the rich, to stop the poor from killing them." -- Michael Caine
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