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Originally posted by Lebell
"What if" is a game of dispair, because you can always "What if" yourself out of happiness, while it never actually makes you happy.
Essentially, it is self doubt rearing it's ugly head.
Do yourself a favor and enjoy the gifts that have been granted you and let tomorrow worry about tomorrow.
Or as someone once said, "Consider the lily's of the field..."
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Lebell is wise....
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Originally posted by Lebell
Seer666,
If I've learned anything in my life, it's that you should share such feelings and thoughts with the person you love.
Best of luck!
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Lebell speaks truth....
Seriously, fuck what if. That's for writers of fiction. Life is to be lived, make your decisions and run with it.
As for marriage, I used to think that there is only one girl in the world for me. Now being married, I know that I could have married a variety of women and could have been happy. It wouldn't be worse or better, just different.
Quit doubting your self, or fate for that matter.
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The sad thing is... as you get older you come to realize that you don't so much pilot your life, as you just try to hold on, in a screaming, defiant ball of white-knuckle anxious fury
