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Originally posted by Evil Milkman
If you're worried about being "gay" while experimenting, ask yourself this: Would a homosexual man be straight just because he tried to have sex with a woman once in his life?
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I don't think this logic applies. Men just aren't very dynamic in their sexuality. It really has to with inherent wiring rather than choice. I respectfully disagree with anyone who says the label "gay" is non-sensical, there are only shades of gray, etc. A bonafide homosexual man has sex with a woman because there is immense societal pressure to behave a certain way. The reverse case, in my understanding, is a man discovering that he's gay. Of course there are truly bi-sexual men, but it seems to be the exception rather than the rule among those who claim that orientation. Women on the other hand, are much more fluid in their sexual orientation and are an entirely different story.
Whatever the case may be for you sheaux_down, safety comes first. You can worry about labels later but I think being forever ambiguous about your sexual preference denies your own identity. Gay, straight, or possibly bi--it doesn't matter. Do this if you really want to, not because your friend is egging you on.