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I'm not married and I have no plans on getting married anytime soon, so I guess my two cents on this subject won't count for much at all.
All I can say is that today I'm not the same man I was two and a half years ago when I first started dating my girlfriend. However this has nothing to do with her changing me or molding me into her ideal image of a boyfriend---I changed because I wanted to change.
For the last ten years or so I have perpetually strived to improve myself, and to this day I continually try to make myself a better man that I am now. But in no way would I let anyone--especially someone I'm in a relation with--try to mold me into their idea of the perfect boyfriend/husband.
The day I let a woman change me into something I'm not is the day I'll put a gun to my head and pull the trigger.
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Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation
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