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Originally posted by filtherton
.... The fact is that what any one woman wants can't be defined by some vague theory. .... I disagree with you that ladder theory is any kind of answer to the problems of chumpitude and getting laid by way of pretending to be sensitive. I doubt we'll ever see eye to eye on this, so the last word is yours if you want it.
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I don't know what to say. All I can really say that, as sad as this sounds, many women I know would happily place themselves inside this theory.
In the end, I'm not sure that Ladder Theory provides any good answers for anyone, I mean it still doesn't tell you how to meet nice girls, or find true love.
What is does tell you is that all of those guys out there, who are nice to girls, and talk to them about their guy problems, are never going to get anywhere, because girls don't mess around with their friends.
By looking around this board, I think that there are a few people who need to understand this.
Finally, there's no need for a last word. By arguing this back and forth we can come to some kind of common ground, or at least come to a better understanding of the subject matter.
Anyway, I'd still like to hear from anyone else out there on whether you find this to be true or not. And if not, maybe you should work up your model of how these types of relationships work.
Filtherton, maybe you can let us know how you approach women, and what has worked for you...