I think you're putting rose tinted spin on this theory. I fail to see the value in defining my relationships and all their potential by means of cynical stereotype. The fact is that what any one woman wants can't be defined by some vague theory. Maybe this is valuable when dealing with women as a group, but one person is impossible to pin down in the framework of one idea as broad as this one. What i see when i look at ladder theory is a bunch of whiny men who need to take responsibility for their actions and their desires. I disagree with you that ladder theory is any kind of answer to the problems of chumpitude and getting laid by way of pretending to be sensitive. I doubt we'll ever see eye to eye on this, so the last word is yours if you want it.
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