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I've been fortunate and never had to deal with such a tough issue, but my gut instinct would be to end things now. You should never have to settle for someone who isn't completely commited to you and your relationship, and it sounds like mentally he's not right now. Perhaps when the divorce is all over and he can give you his full attantion and really be an equal partner in the realtionship, then you can pursue it again. But for now, I'd say its better for you both to call it off for now.
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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