Well, based upon what you've said here, I think this sounds complicated enough to consider letting go entirely. You shouldn't ever be made to feel you're not number one. However, perhaps he will get screwed in the divorce if his soon-to-be-ex finds out that he's seeing someone seriously? You should confront him directly and let him know that if there's a reason behind his behavior, you'd like to know what it is. If he can't give you an adequate response, then move on. Don't waste your time with someone who's on the rebound and who isn't ready to commit to you completely. Don't compromise who you are because you'll regret it, without a doubt.
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