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I think there is often confusion when using the term "nice guy". It needs to be said that there is a difference between a "nice guy" and a carpet shaped slice of chumphood who neither respects himself nor the opposite sex.
There is a difference between being a nice guy and being somebody who attempts to get laid by pretending to be caring and sensitive. I think it is also silly to complain of being used by a woman if your sole motivation for putting time into a relationship was to get laid. Not that this necessarily applies to you 789.
X_789_X, this may be belated, but you need to tell this girl to fuck off. Then you need figure out what you want in a woman and decide whether you want to play a part in these bullshit games. Most importantly, don't change who you are to get laid. I think women and men, if they're worth anything as mate material, respect people who know what they want and respect themselves. It has nothing to do with being a "bad boy". It has everything to do with having confidence and self respect.
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