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Originally posted by sixate
Ditch her!
Just because she told you about it that doesn't mean she can be trusted. What's next, she sucks a dudes dick and then tells you about it so that makes her trustworthy??? I think not. Move on.
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I usually agree with sixate with matters such as this, even though he has no fuckin clue who I am.
Trust is a key thing in relationships... and admitting to problems does not let someone off the hook. You are seriously saying you would let someone hurt you and then 'forget' about it if they apologized? That is what the Bible says... but that is kind of anti human nature. We are always going to feel bad about broken trust... period. Unless you are a priest.
The 'crime' ( You were supossed to be in a monogamous relationship, right? ) has been done, but that doesn't make it right that she told you. Who says it's not going to happen again? Who says more isn't going to happen?
You want to give her the benefit of the doubt, you really do, but shit, you have a serious investment in her, and it appears (from the evidence presented) that she doesn't have a serious investment in you. I would think things over carefully... before you end up seriously hurt. I am not going to recommend anything because I don't know all the circumstances, but try to put some mental distance between you and her when you do your evaluating and look at things logically.
I wish you the best of luck.