thanx all...i'm 31 she is 28, one kid each from other partner....we have talked again, this post actually is what got me to talk to her about it again, i needed to hear things from her side again and discuss what she is thinking about our future. the talk went well, she said most of the right things, but trust is one of those things that takes time to rebuild. so for now, we will remain together, however i have already decided that i won't stay in the relationship if my trust doesn't return. i will not live my life in constant state of "worry" due to this issue....i have to get over it OR i will end up leaving.
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mean people suck.....period.
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