I know this is an old thread, but I was going back through this board.
I told my mom before she died (I'm only 22 now) that we weren't going to, and she always said that it was my decision and was ok with it. My grandmother tells me now that my mom said it made her think she was a horrible mother, but my grandmother...distorts the truth. REALLY distorts the truth.
My dad is ok with it. Again, says it's my decision. My grandmother, on the otherhand (the one from above) keeps telling me that I'll change my mind, and that being a mother was the most important thing she ever did. Well, that's nice, but that's not my life.
I know I'm young, but I'd rather concentrate on my career, (future) husband, and fur-babies. I like to be spontaneous sometimes.
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