You're on vacation, you're sick in bed, and she runs off to get drunk from drinks that other guys buy for her instead of sticking around (even in the general area of the hotel,) or at least checking in every once in a while? She doesn't sound too considerate. To me, a committed relationship consists not only of being able to trust the other person, but at the very least, actually giving a shit abut them and their well-being.
On top of that, she did something with another guy that she thought would be more forgivable if she reduced it to just kissing for the confession.
Moral of the story: Be considerate of your SO and don't drink too much if it impairs your judgement that much.
Maybe I'm being too cynical, maybe you should give her one more chance if you really love her, but there's going to be a big strain on your relationship if you do make it through this.
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