Having been married now for eight-going-on-nine years, I can say for certain that I'm not at all the person I was on my wedding day. I hardly even recognize that guy.
Now, being married certainly isn't the only contributing factor there. I've grown up enormously since then. I've participated in some amazing education that's made a huge difference in my life, I've become a professional and an entrepeneur, and yes, I'm a husband. I'm a whole person, is my point, and ALL whole people change. It's nothing to be afraid of. Definitely nothing to resist.
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