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You want Trust.....I'd say you got it. There was no way you would have found out about 'the kiss' and she told you anyway.
She obviously felt bad enough about it to tell you. This is worth mucho points in my book.
If the shoe was on the other foot .....some girl comes on to you in a bar, buys you drinks, then swaps spit ......would you tell her about it? Maybe, maybe not. If you did, you would not be a 'dirtbag'. If she was pissed that you told her or blamed it on you then maybe she is the one who isn't trusting.
BTW - This same thing happened to me but it was with a 'friend'. My fiance was quick to tell me and apologized profusely. My first action was to get my shotgun....but I eventually calmed down. I of course forgave her (but not him, ever). We'll be married twenty one years in July.
Good Luck.
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